BBC The Repair Shop’s Jay Blades charged with controlling and coercive behaviour against estranged wife

Jay Blades, star of BBC's The Repair Shop, has been charged with coercive and controlling behavior against his estranged wife

Blades, 52, was charged on Friday, August 12, by Nottinghamshire Police.

He is accused of engaging in coercive and controlling behavior between January 2017 and October 2018 in Nottinghamshire.

Blades is due to appear at Nottingham Magistrates' Court on September 13.

What is coercive and controlling behavior?

Coercive and controlling behavior is a pattern of behavior that seeks to control another person by making them feel worthless, isolated, or scared.

It can include physical violence, verbal abuse, financial control, and sexual abuse.

Coercive and controlling behavior is a form of domestic abuse and can have a devastating impact on the victim's mental health and well-being.

What are the signs of coercive and controlling behavior?

There are many signs of coercive and controlling behavior, including:

• Monitoring your movements or whereabouts
• Isolating you from friends and family
• Controlling your finances
• Making you feel worthless or ashamed
• Threatening you with violence or harm

If you are experiencing any of these signs, it is important to seek help.

What can you do if you are experiencing coercive and controlling behavior?

If you are experiencing coercive and controlling behavior, there are a number of things you can do:

• Talk to someone you trust, such as a friend, family member, or therapist
• Call a domestic abuse helpline, such as the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
• Create a safety plan in case you need to escape your abuser
• Contact the police if you are in immediate danger

It is important to remember that you are not alone and that there is help available.

Conclusion

Coercive and controlling behavior is a serious crime that can have a devastating impact on the victim.

If you are experiencing any of the signs of coercive and controlling behavior, it is important to seek help.

There are a number of resources available to help you, including domestic abuse helplines, therapists, and the police.

Remember, you are not alone and that there is help available.